Comments on: Why ‘The Millionaire Next Door’ is a Myth to Most Millennials https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=millionaire-next-door-myth Born To Help You Save Money Fri, 07 Jan 2022 16:44:17 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.2.1 By: bluedevil93 https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-108657 Fri, 07 Jan 2022 16:44:17 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-108657 There are no impediments to anyone investing regardless of any demographic status.

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By: Dawn https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-108529 Sun, 29 Nov 2020 03:16:50 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-108529 After researching wealth building in my 20’s, and getting no cooperation from my husband on any system of money sense in our thirties, I remained married, but developed a system of separating our money. I am now 57, retired with a good pension (teacher) and over a million in savings. My husband will retire in 4 more years. At this point he only needs to have enough in retirement for his own spending because I am financially independent of him and have plenty to support our household. He did finally get on board about 4 years ago to some extent. It does make me wonder what we could have accomplished together.

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By: Laura Sonnier https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-71224 Sun, 26 Apr 2020 16:13:51 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-71224 $300 a month for 65 years IS $8m ($7.9). I’m not sure how you got $2500. I used this calc: https://www.hughcalc.org/compound_js.html

His calcs are awesome. And free!

Just because you have hurdles doesn’t mean you can’t win. I personally like to run under them. But then I’m short. Lol.

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By: AvC https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-53020 Tue, 14 Jan 2020 02:32:34 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-53020 In reply to Lily.

As the 20s is now a reality and time to refocus, I pulled out my 1996 copy of The M/N/D and really noticed the white ethnocentric bias. (Disclosure: I’m Asian and my household made millionaire status, as did my parents and we were never mentioned, nor were African Americans.) What’s been revealed since are structural impediments to minorities gaining access to wealth. I made millionaire status INSPITE of the institutional structures that would only let me go so far. However, there are still basic strategies, live below your means, cook at home, bring leftovers for lunch, save, save, and save. 401(k)s with employer match was a Godsend, as well. O always contributed, never noticed it. Ran into debts in my 20s and 30s but also opened an Etrade account and started dabbling in the market and lucky enough to get into Apple when it was under $20/sharr. And then I ignored it. No matter your situation, spend less than you earn. It’s the only way.

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By: Mike A https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-41238 Tue, 08 Oct 2019 13:43:26 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-41238 In reply to Greg.

Agreed. Thanks to the Internet and worldwide connectivity, anyone with ambition can hang a shingle and find a way to make money.

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By: Mike A https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-41237 Tue, 08 Oct 2019 13:42:03 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-41237 In reply to Cato.

Well said Cato! Millennials fail because they are being told they will fail, so they don’t try in the first place. Then there are the Millennials who think for themselves, like you. Every generation has something against them. My grandparents came here with nothing (having given their live savings to a shipping company for transport to America). They stood in bread lines and my grandfather shoved snow in the schoolyard (to the heartbreak of my young father) for $0.25 a week. My father grew up during the time of the great depression and never made very much of a salary, but he still found a way to house and comfortably feed us. Boomers, Gen-Xers, and Millennials have it better than anyone. Don’t let those who seek to control you by keeping you down tell you any different.

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By: Mike A https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-41235 Tue, 08 Oct 2019 13:34:20 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-41235 In reply to Mr. Groovy.

Groovy: I agree. Thanks to the higher education/predatory loan industry, a BA or BS today is the equivalent of a high school diploma when I was young. The answer? Go into even more debt by pursuing a Masters Degree, which is the equivalent of a BA or BS when I was young. What we need is for Corporate America and government education certification to step-up and revive the practice of apprenticeship.

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By: Mike A https://thefrugalgene.com/millionaire-next-door-myth/#comment-41233 Tue, 08 Oct 2019 13:27:45 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=5484#comment-41233 In 1961, I was born in the poorest family of a poor neighborhood in Brooklyn. Shootings and stabbings at my high school were commonplace, unlike today where the media acts like it’s something new. Coming from a poor white family, who owned a home via the GI Bill, I did not qualify for financial aid unless my father sold his house. As a result, I worked nights and weekends to put myself through college. Bottm line: As a child, I had it far worse than most millennials today, so please don’t cry me a river.

I won’t go through all the details, except to say that the ramifications of my first divorce, when I was 40, left me with nothing. I was 51 years old when child support finally ended – leaving me with a net worth of $0, no 401K, and no pension. The same was true when I got my second divorce at 55, we got divorced because I was sick of being poor with no hope of a decent retirement and my second wife wouldn’t get on board with doing what was necessary to build wealth. In the four years since (I am 59 now), I have built a net worth over 1/2 Million dollars; and I’m on track to hit $1M in the next three years.

It was only recently that I came across the book, The Millionaire Next Door, and Stanley’s latest book, Stop Acting Rich, to find that I was following Stanley’s advice all along without even knowing it. As I state in my upcoming book, which I will not shamelessly plug here, there are many ways to grow wealth – even if living paycheck to paycheck. If I can do after starting out with nothing at 55 years old, then anyone can do it. What it takes is action. The action of doing and hard choices like moving to areas with a lower cost of living, leaving a spouse because he/she won’t get with the program, finding ways to cut expenses and use the savings as capital, taking the time to cleverly invest that capital, garnering multiple streams of income, and converting from desire based purchasing to needs based purchasing (the beauty of non-ownership, as I say in my book) – even so, I want for nothing. Best of all, by not wasting my money on material possessions and not pouring it into the black hole of home ownership; if I lose my job tomorrow, then I have nothing to lose and enough cash to support myself for the next ten years. If I keep working, then I’m looking at one heck of a comfortable retirement. I can unequivocally state that Stanley’s advice is timeless and just as relevant today as when he wrote it.

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