Comments on: How It Feels To Resent Someone For Being Spoiled https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=resent-someone-spoiled-adult Born To Help You Save Money Sun, 01 Aug 2021 07:56:47 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.2.1 By: Tm Supportwave https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-108612 Sun, 01 Aug 2021 07:56:47 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-108612 I additionally get somewhat baffled by a family companion that has made a huge load of cash, and he manages job hard, yet won’t give any credit to the enormous advantage he got (some premium free advances from Mom abd Dad – barely any hundred thousand) – I call it human instinct and something I simply observe personally and a parent and afterward push it out of psyche.

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By: Mysticaltyger https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-6776 Tue, 17 Jul 2018 23:49:25 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-6776 In another 10 years, if not sooner, I don’t think you’ll be friends with her. As time goes on, the gap between the completely unambitious and those with goals gets wider and wider and you have less and less in common.

There’s really no reason to be jealous of her at all. She’s not living a life that will lead to any kind of happiness.

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By: Ms. Fiology https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-6733 Fri, 13 Jul 2018 03:26:30 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-6733 Extreme privilege can be detrimental to a person. It doesn’t have to be but it’s pretty sad and frustrating when it is. Yeah, your emotions sound pretty normal. I do give you credit for remaining her friend and admitting your jealousy is your issue, not hers.

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By: The Vigilante https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-6731 Thu, 12 Jul 2018 19:25:04 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-6731 Despite the bad press it gets, I’m guessing you either are a fan of or would be a fan of Atlas Shrugged.

Francisco D’Anconia basically says exactly the same thing every time he opens his mouth over the 1,000-page book. He was born into massive wealth and seeks to earn it; he looks down unforgivingly on those who are born into wealth and do the opposite. One of the most inspirational characters in literature, if you ask me.

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By: Gina https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-6728 Thu, 12 Jul 2018 13:37:33 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-6728 I think you’re more frustrated than jealous. You see someone who takes all of her blessings for granted and you wish you could tell her how great her life could be if she just put some effort. I don’t hear jealousy in your tone, I hear a caring friend who sees her friend wasting all of the resources we Frugal people appreciate and value. I hope she comes around one day before it’s too late.

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By: FullTimeFinance https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-6727 Thu, 12 Jul 2018 12:58:06 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-6727 Many of us have similar experiences with a friend or worse family. It’s not always even money. It could be the super intelligent family member with a free ride to college that squandered the opportunity and never went anywhere. There’s a case to be made that a little adversity is a great motivator . Without the it perhaps people struggle to find a purpose.

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By: Your Tuesday InterWeb Roundup — July 10th, 2018 – Rogue Dad, M.D. https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-6704 Tue, 10 Jul 2018 11:02:32 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-6704 […] Read This Also: How It Feels To Resent Someone For Being Spoiled […]

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By: Lily https://thefrugalgene.com/resent-someone-spoiled-adult/#comment-6499 Tue, 26 Jun 2018 08:49:14 +0000 https://thefrugalgene.com/?p=11085#comment-6499 In reply to Ally.

There is a point to that!! I asked Soap if she ever wanted to declare bankruptcy to get out of it but she thought it was immoral to place that responsibility on others. I was very alarmed because, in all this misery, she seems to not burden anyone else (besides her parents who can definitely help her). I don’t know…there’s a whole level of psychology to it that is amazing to Soaps.

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